From the very beginning when I first picked up a camera Rachel was down to pose for me, no matter what the concept. I would throw her in pouf dresses and mohawks and even once, with the help of my entire family, I suspended her in a cobweb of ropes from a few trees. She’s always trusted my vision and never hesitated to help make the pictures in my head a reality.
I fondly call Rachel my beautiful alien, weird and unique and true to herself. But it wasn’t always that way. I remember a completely different girl in high school. I remember someone timid, shy and trying to blend into the background.
Luckily, being out of school can help change things and Rachel found her voice! But you don’t need me to talk about it, here she is in her own words-
“When I was growing up, I was the awkward lanky kid, never to be caught dead in dresses and shorts. I was too skinny, too pale, too quiet. I only started wearing makeup when I was 17, because my twin sister begged me to try mascara. I struggled a lot with my body confidence because people told me I was too thin, or I should tan because I look like a ghost. After a few years of growing up, I feel like I’m the ghost with the most. I started changing my look with my vivid colors, and my own artistic expression. I found confidence in myself by looking at the differences not as weaknesses- but something that makes me stand out in crowds, and that makes me feel unique and beautiful.”
I’m going to try to take Rachel’s words to heart, to look at my differences as strengths instead of weaknesses. It’s kind of interesting to me because I’ve always been the different one and embraced that to the max but when it comes to my body I still find that I want to be the same as the Instagram stars with millions of likes. I want the big, toned booty and the tiny waist and the perky boobs and the clear, unblemished face. But I’m not that, I don’t have that, I can work really hard and get close to it…but is it worth it? I don’t know. I really like chips.
The more bodies I photograph the more I really, truly realize how incredibly STUPID we all are with our insecurities about our differences. Every person that gets in front of my camera has hang ups about themselves and their outer appearance. And it’s so mind-blowing to me to be on the outside looking in at you and only seeing your beauty and your strengths and your uniqueness. All I see is perfection and I wonder why you can’t see it too. But then I go back into my little bubble and beat myself up about how I look and feel like I’m a fraud for telling everyone to love themselves when I am honestly not fully there yet. It’s a mind-fuck I tell ya.
I guess the moral of this story is embrace your weird.
Here’s my beautiful alien in all of her glory wearing Sweet Tooth Lingerie styled with a vintage beaded thingy I had lying around. This was photographed in my newly decorated Wisconsin ‘studio’ and the amazing hair and makeup is of course Elle HMUA.