I used to think that I was a pervert because I loved lingerie so much. I didn’t really think that liking lingerie was sinful in itself but having a straight-up love affair with corsets and panties and balconette bras seemed somehow…wrong. No one else I knew gave a shit about ‘underthings’ past the point of going to the Victoria’s Secret at the mall a few times a year to buy underwear on sale with the word PINK plastered on the back. Obviously something was wrong with ME.
So I sort of kept my obsession a secret. I’d scour the Goodwill’s and the thrifts stores for vintage garter belts and itty bitty bustiers that I, a 14 year old, really had no use in buying. I remember being ashamed at the check out counter, trying desperately to hide my newest score, a green velvet bra, in the middle of a pile of sweaters and jeans, all the while praying that the lady ringing me up didn’t give me ‘that look.’
I eventually got older (as you do) and grew some lingerie balls. I also discovered the wonderful, anonymous world of online shopping! Ebay, and later Etsy, took a lot of my money (and still does).
My tastes have changed as well. I now lust after and splurge on designer lingerie as well as independent brands because the quality, construction, and design are just so much more well-executed than your average JCPenny bra/panty set. And talk about unique! But I’m not a snob either. I still scour the thrift stores for vintage girdle panties, bullet bras and 80’s Victoria’s Secret finds.
One of my main labors of love is the Duende Boudoir Lingerie Closet. It’s where my passion has turned into something beneficial. I have SO MANY options for you to choose from to wear at your boudoir photo shoot with me in a wide variety of sizes and styles. I get stuff so frequently that I have a hard time posting it all up on there for people to look at! I have things that people could only dream of wearing, such as a Catherine D’lish gown (I have FOUR so far) or an Agent Provocateur corset. Or discontinued Made by Niki. These items are out of most people’s price range, considered an unnecessary extravagance (you can love lingerie but think it’s crazy to spend $700 on a robe and still want to wear one for a shoot!), but when you come to me you can truly experience luxury lingerie for a day.
I recently discovered a private Facebook group dedicated to Lingerie Addicts and I feel like for the first time I found MY PEOPLE.
And one of those people is Melissa (@theheiresslingerie on Instagram)!
Melissa currently lives in Nashville and we have similar lingerie tastes. We both love Bordelle and Agent Provocateur and the store Baby Likes to Pony so I thought it only natural that we team up for a photo shoot. She kept insisting that she isn’t a model. I kept insisting that didn’t matter. She brought her favorite pieces, I added a green Corsettery corset and my black lace D’lish gown and we made magic! We didn’t have enough time to capture the Bordelle set she owns which haunts me to this day (both not having the images or owning that set!) but oh well, there’s always next time and vigilant searches on Ebay!
Here’s what she had to say about the experience-
“The shoot was even more fun than I thought it would be. I’ve obviously never modeled nor am I a model but having someone say things like, “Yes fierce goddess!” to me was just awesome. I’m a little different in that I wear lingerie that’s slightly…aspirational. I have very specific tastes and they’re usually a bit expensive so every piece I own is like a little piece of jewelry to me. Meeting Paige through lingerie and then getting to live my ‘fancy rich lady model’ fantasy, if only for a few hours, was so joyful.”
It was a joy for me as well, smooshing three things I love together- lingerie, nature, and making a woman feel amazing!
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