I want to talk about how important it is to me that my clients feel safe when we are working together.
Boudoir, for the most part, is a deeply personal experience. You are baring your soul and your body and tapping into parts of yourself that you probably rarely let see the light. It’s a little uncomfortable but it should be because you’re growing.
All of these things are wonderful and powerful and can sometimes be the catalyst for changing your entire life. Imagine if you actually started to believe that you are beautiful and sensual and important and can do anything that you set your mind to! It happens. Self-reverence opens many doors.
BUT none of these things can happen if you don’t feel at ease, if you don’t feel secure enough to let your guard down, if you don’t feel like you’re in a safe space.
You will ALWAYS be in a safe space with me, physically AND mentally.
If you decide to book an outdoor boudoir session, which people are starting to request with more frequency, your photo shoot will take place on my family’s private property. (Unless, on the rare occasion, you have an amazing spot or idea of your own that won’t get us arrested!) No strangers are going to be walking by as you frolic naked in the woods. It’ll be just you, me, and the bugs. And while it’s not the most glamorous place to get dolled up, my parents’ house is ours to use to get ready in. (They won’t be home!)
You probably don’t think of the privacy factor when you’re daydreaming about your own epic outdoor boudoir photo shoot experience but shooting PRIVATELY outside is something that most boudoir photographers don’t have the luxury of offering. I feel very fortunate to be able to give this to my clients, especially since shooting outside with Mother Nature was how I started my photography journey.
You should feel safe with me emotionally as well.
Girrrrrlll let me tell you….
Whatever mental hangups you have about yourself I’ve either experienced in the past or continue to experience. I’ve dealt with depression, anxiety, eating disorders, dissociation, self-loathing so bad I couldn’t look in a mirror, and, only recently the journey to self-love and I’m here to tell you that you will not be judged by me.
I’m not going to be thinking about your stretch marks (we all have them, it means you’ve grown silly!), your cottage cheese butt (please tell me I’m not the only one with this!), or your two different sized breasts. I don’t care about those things. I’m not going to be picking you apart like you’re some sort of weird specimen or something that needs improving (you probably do this enough to yourself every day).
What I will be doing is looking at you with kind eyes, coaxing you to really let your inner self out, and making sure that you point your damn toes.
A body is just a shell to me- some are bigger or smaller, some are shorter or taller, some are lighter or darker, some are lumpy-er or more toned but NONE OF THE FEATURES OF YOUR BODY DETERMINE YOUR WORTH. I’m looking deeper, I’m looking for the soul. And you should too.
I’m starting to realize that this is why people come to me- they want to feel seen for more than what they look like on the outside.
I will pose you so effortlessly that you don’t even realize you’re posing most of the time. You’ll be focusing on the way the wind caresses your cheek, the feeling of the dewy grass meeting your body as you lay down, the noise of the pine needles crunching underneath your feet, the mosquitoes eating you alive, the stick prodding you in the back…you get the picture! And yes, you will look good. I’ll make sure you tighten the stomach muscles, pop that booty, lift the chin…and breathe.
I want you to know that you can feel safe with me, you can trust me, and that together we are going to hopefully open that door to realizing just how amazing you truly are.
But don’t just take my word for it. Here’s what someone recently had to say about their experience-
“I was unsure how I would feel getting photos, feeling unsure and vulnerable about how they would turn out. As soon as I arrived, I felt so comfortable. Starting with hair and makeup, I was feeling my best self after just that! Letting myself do this and allowing myself to be my most free and best self in front of the camera turned out to be one of the best and most liberating experiences I’ve had! Paige is so professional, and she makes you feel like you’re the most beautiful person she’s ever seen in front of the camera. I’ve never seen anyone with so much patience! Awkward ladies out there- this girl is for you! Would highly recommend a photo shoot with Paige!! Do it for your awesome self.” –Samantha
Yup. Awkward girls unite!
Here’s an outdoor photo shoot that took place on my family’s land this past summer. Looking at these, I am instantly transported back. I can smell the wildflowers, I can hear the big bumblebees, I can feel that warm early morning breeze…. take me back!
We got a little creative and stuck wildflowers in one of the sheer bodysuits from the boudoir closet. We only had about 10 minutes to capture this look but what we got is stunning! Carley really blends right in with the beauty of nature!
Wardrobe- Duende Boudoir Closet
Hair and Makeup- Elle Allen Hair & Makeup
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